How to Return to Work as a Single Mom (Without Feeling Overwhelmed)

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Returning to work as a single mom is a huge transition—one filled with excitement, nerves, and (let’s be honest) a little bit of guilt. After spending so much time with your little one, the idea of juggling a career, childcare, and everything in between can feel overwhelming.

But guess what? You are not alone, and you CAN do this! I’m right there with you, navigating this journey myself, and I’ve learned a few things that can make this process smoother.

If you’re feeling anxious about heading back to work, here are five practical steps to help you transition without the overwhelm.

1. Get Clear on Your Why

Before you step back into the workforce, take a moment to reflect. Why do you want to return to work?

  • Is it to provide financial stability for your family?
  • Do you miss professional growth and using your skills?
  • Are you seeking more structure and independence?

When challenges arise (because they will!), having a clear reason will keep you motivated and help push past the guilt or doubt.

2. Plan Childcare in Advance

One of the biggest stressors for working moms is finding reliable childcare. Start researching early and consider options such as:

  • *    Nursery
  • *    Childminders/nannies
  • *    Family or trusted friends
  • *    Preschool

Create a backup plan in case your usual childcare falls through—this will give you peace of mind and prevent last-minute panic. I will admit I do not have extended family in the UK and any relative or friend lives far away. I am truly depending on faith here and some good sound advice to create this plan.

3. Establish a Work-Life Routine

Balancing work and motherhood means creating a routine that works for YOU. Some helpful strategies:

  • Time-blocking: Allocate specific time for work, childcare, and personal time.
  • Meal prepping: Save time and reduce stress by planning meals in advance.
  • Morning prep: Lay out clothes, pack lunches, and organise bags the night before.

You don’t have to be superwoman—just organised and intentional!

4. Set Boundaries & Manage Expectations

The key to avoiding burnout is knowing your limits.

  • If you’re working from home, set clear boundaries between work and mom duties.
  • If you’re in an office job, communicate your availability and flexible needs with your employer.
  • Say no to things that don’t align with your priorities. Your time is valuable!

Remember, you don’t have to do everything alone. It’s okay to ask for help. Your well-being matters too.

5. Be Kind to Yourself

The transition won’t be perfect, and that’s okay! You might miss your little one, feel exhausted, or have moments of doubt—but give yourself grace.

  • Celebrate small wins—like making it through the first week!
  • Lean on support—connect with other working moms who understand.
  • Take breaks—self-care isn’t selfish, it’s necessary.

Most importantly, remind yourself why you started. You’re not just doing this for yourself—you’re building a better future for your family.

Remember!

Going back to work as a single mom is a big step, but it’s also an empowering one. With the right mindset, preparation, and support, you can return to work feeling confident and in control.

Here's an online post that gives a few more tips https://www.refreshingacareer.com/refresh-your-career/parenthood/single-parents/#:~:text=Careers%20for%20Single%20Parents%20That,as%20little%20as%2018%20months.

💬 Let’s Chat! What’s your biggest challenge about returning to work? Drop a comment below—I’d love to help!

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